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  • May 5, 2010, 11:32 AM
    JK191
    One night stands overrated?
    Seriously, last night went down like this:

    - Friend's party
    - Meet cute chick I haven't seen before
    - Alcohol
    - Seemingly hot sex for her, awkward sex for me
    - She orgasmed twice, I didn't orgasm at all (prolly too drunk I dunno)

    Seriously, it just didn't feel like the sex I was used to...
  • May 5, 2010, 11:54 AM
    Cat1864

    Some people need the emotional attachment that comes with being in a relationship. Others can separate the physical from the emotional.

    I would guess that, besides being drunk, you need more than a hot and willing body to have truly satisfying intercourse.
  • May 5, 2010, 12:20 PM
    JK191

    Wow, even more thing to add to my "How I'm closer to a woman than a Man sometimes" bit.

    'Eh, fun stuff.

    Thanks Cat1864 :)
  • May 5, 2010, 06:32 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Then you lie to all your friends about how great it was.
    ** the last part of the story
  • May 7, 2010, 07:39 AM
    smoothy

    I'm a guy... so my 2 cents worth.

    I've had more than a few one night stands over the years... and quite honestly while the "New Girl" excitement was high... the quality of sex was low... we simply didn't know each other well enough to push all the right buttons.

    Not at all a prude... but the fact is you can have far better sex with someone you know well, than with someone you don't know at all.

    And I'm not considering "sex" to be simply, insert, withdraw, repeat until you get a response.

    Getting off does not = great sex.

    And alcohol does always negatively effect ones performance.. over if it does lower ones inhibitions as well.

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