Split up and don't want to move on even though I no I need to
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God I am so depressed me and my boyfriend have split so many times but this time it hurts the most he seems so sure that he doesn't want me anymore despite the fact he's told me he still loves me and cares about me. We were going fine when is mates fell out with him but they came along again and before I knew it he decided he didn't want a girlfrind but hear this when ever we talk I ask him if he thinks we will ever get back and all he says is I don't know and I ask him if he's moved on an he says no I will do soon though and I was like what if you proper think of me one day and miss me like the other times will you just ignore what you feel and he said no id get back with you. On the other hand when I rang again and asked if he's been thinking he's like yes but we isn't getting back but we might in the future but I don't know what he wants because one min he's telling me that he needs time to think and the other min he's saying he's thought about it and were definitely not getting back and its killing me I don't know weather to move on or wait till I know its definite. Thing is I don't want to move on I love him too much and don't really want to start again I'm scared for the future he's the only lad who's ever see my body and what am I'm going to do when it come to when I do get another boyfriend who wants sex. I just want to get on with things but I just can't he's contantly on my mind I always think of the good momories we had and all he says is its all gone but the day we split before his mum txtd me having a go saying I'm scaring him and we both need time out and we broke as soon as I cnfronted him so I don't no is he messing with my head? Thanks for reading his and helping me as I know its very long but there's so much more but id bore you all I just need help big time I'm so scared it feels so unreal.
He's moved on so fast why cant I?
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Me and my boyfriend have only split a month ago and haven't heard from him in a while and I decided to tell him how hard it were to get over him and he told me he had a new girlfriend this tore me in two and I seriously can't cope anymore with life we were going for 2 years for crying out loud, and it took him a month for him to move on but there's something stopping me I love him so much and can't let go. I have no confidence what so ever and I just feel like I can't move on I just feel so upset and lonely just please tell me what I do?
I always try and rely on my boyfriend.
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I really need help here, I think I am suffering from severe depression, but I don't think about it when I'm with my boyfriend, so I basically want to be with him 24/7, it's like I get afraid of alone time! I understand that he wants his alone time and that he needs it but at the same time I feel as if he is neglecting me and not thinking about my feelings, then I feel selfish and awful. I would feel a hell of a lot better if I had more things to do with my alone time, but I feel as if I haven't got any mates to do anything with because most of them are busy being full time mums or are too busy or don't invite me anywhere, I feel as if I have to do all the running about. Thing is I expect my boyfriend to stay in with me on the weekend when I feel loneliness the most, which he does sometimes but other times he just has to go out with his best mate without me, and I get so angry and think that he doesn't care about me at all I just feel so alone and I feel as if he doesn't listen to me or just ignores me and acts selfish about it. I hate it when he goes out though because I never have ought to do, I end up on Facebook for half of the night and I get so fed up and think about all the things on my mind and start crying. How do I stop myself being like this? I also have dreams about him braking up with me and it hurts me because it feels so real, I'm really scared of being on my own I hate it so much =[ please someone have answers!
My boyfriend talks to a girl that is flirty with him!
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Right me and the boyfriend have been together nearly 4 month, but I am not happy at all, it's like he doesn't listen to my needs. And for me to be happy he needs to stop talking to this girl who has been trying to flirt with him for ages I knew about her before we got together but I thought she would stop. I think that she is being pathetic, and needs to get a grip before I grip my hands round her throat she calls him the names that I'm meant to call him: babe, baby, hunnie, etc and sends him love and talks about him texting her saying sorry I didn't text back. I am not possessive and I don't want people thinking that but I get so angry when she sends wall posts to him I am pretty sure she is doing it to winde me up! I mean I blocked a fb account of hers so I couldn't see to help me get over it, then all of a sudden she used a different account, surprise surprise that's a bit strange? When I try to tell him about it, he accuses me of controlling me and I would never do that but shouldn't he put me 1st instead of stupid people like that! I am getting really frustrated! And when I tell him I'm going to message her he goes I wouldn't do that she will make up so much I know what she is like she will us both up! If that's the case why doesn't he tell her to do one and block contact from her! It's really hurting me I'm fed up of getting messed around if I am!