So I've kind of tried to stay away from rships for a while since them seem to end up badly... recently met someone... now in general conversation he says that he doesn't date and he will never get married because he never lets anyone stay around long enough.. I pay attention because I realize I kind of have a thing for him... as the weeks pass I really start to realize how much I like him... now he picks up on the fact that I like him... and to other people that are oblivious to what's going they start to approach me in general conversation and tell me that its obvious he likes me.. just how we interact with each other... we start spending time with one another... a couple weeks ago we took it to a physical level... unfortunantly for me that just makes me like him more.. im not like in love with him or anything... but about a week ago I asked him out.. something I don't do... its never been me... but he didn't answer me... he "sidestepped" the question... and when we joke around I asked him one day if he liked me... I even said its OK if you don't I won't take it personal.. and he didn't answer then either so I'm really confused... just wondering if maybe I'm wasting my time with this guy... we talk all the time and it so OBVIOUS that he is in to me.. just don't know what I should do