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  • May 3, 2010, 01:37 PM
    noemi533
    My dad keeps getting aroused in front of me
    "Hello my father is turning 70 and for the first time ever in my life he did something today that was not normal at all. he actually put on music and started dancing with me which was not bothering me until I felt his pants get a hard on and he poked me and when I tried to stop dancing with him he wouldn't let me go and kept rubbing up against me. I don't know if maybe I am over reacting but this doesn't feel normal to me and I feel disgusting and violated. I didn't want to say nothing to him because I didn't want to embarrass him or hurt his feelings because maybe it could be medical reason for his behavior. A friend of mine said it could be alzheimers so I was hoping you could help me out. Please tell me how can I help him and what he can do to help himself. Are there pills he can take?
    This is the first time he did this so I am letting it slide but if it happens again I have to do something because I have a 4 year old daughter and we all live in the same house hold.
    He just kept insisting I dance with him even when I kept saying no he would try to pick me up and he was walking around with a hard on all day until he decided to take a shower then he acted normal again.
    My mom works out the house and she just started this job 2 days ago and I work from home I feel like I should tell my mom she should quit her job and stay home with pops cause then he will not try nothing. I dont know I am confused and need help."
  • May 3, 2010, 01:53 PM
    Stratmando

    What a pain, sorry to hear. Its not normal, Lack of medicine, or too much medicine can make people do strange things.
    I wouldn't leave your daughter alone with him. It would be nice if you could tell your mom if you feel it would help, without destroying your family. Maybe he needs to shower more often. Good Luck
    Hopefully it was a pocket knife in his pocket. Take Care/Good Luck
  • May 3, 2010, 04:26 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Has his mental health been checked, is he aware of things around him clearly
  • May 3, 2010, 04:57 PM
    Enigma1999

    Hello,

    The fact that he is 70 and has never done this before clearly shows that it is out of character...

    I am with Fr chuck on this, I too have to ask if he has been checked out lately?

    Is he on any medication right now?

    Other than this, does he seem to know what is going on around him?

    Does he seem forgetful?

    Do you plan on telling your Mother?

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