Could someone please tell me if my husband has been lying to me. There was recently a situation that came up for us, and we agreed on the way it should be handled. But after agreeing on everything, nothing seemed to be as we discussed. I accused him of lyiing to me. He swears he didn't. I don't know, I want to believe him because I have never had any reason to doubt him before, but he really does look guilty in this matter. If it had been a little thing, I think I would have overlooked it, but this was something that could have altered our family's lives. I want to know.

I sense that your husband is a little bit disturbed right now. He is struggling to get his mind back on track - focused. This is primarily due to somekind of financial slump. It's not he is facing financial disaster, it's just that he needs to focus. Try to be supportive and give him some time as he evolves into another life cycle.