I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. And anymore he's been acting strange like on christmas I got him a present and he never got me anything. On my birthday he didn't get me anything. And then he'd make promises and he'd forget about it or he would break it. And I left for 2 week, because I had to see my sickgrandfather with my mother. When I got back he doesn't even look at me the sameits like he's moved on and when I'd ask him if he stillloves me he said yes. But I can see in his eyes that he's hideing something from me. I don't know what to really do. Id confront him but he just say o I'm fine or hed say there's nothing wrong but I can't see there something is. If anyone has an idea on what I can do please tell me id really apperciate it. Thank you.

The only thing you can do,is to sit him down and have a serious conversation about where the relationship is going.

If he has had a change of heart,you are better off knowing sooner rather than later.

I agree with Amicon, the only thing to do is ask him to be honest with you. It's been 3 years, tell him that you'd rather know what he's feeling than continue this way. If he won't tell you, then perhaps you need to take a break from him.

If he can't give you straight answers, then walk away.

No point dragging this out.

You've asked him if there is a problem, he says No! Yet his actions show something different. You date someone for 3 years and they suddenly don't remember Christmas or your birthday, does not look you in the eye? There's something wrong there.
If he can't be honest with you, if he won't communicate with you, you might need to walk.

I suppose you could sit down and talk to him, but if he can't even look you in the eye, I don't know how well that's going to work. I would feel absolutely horrible if my husband got me something for my birthday and christmas and I didn't get him anything. The fact of the matter is, I wouldn't do that. Something's not right, and whether you sit down and talk to him, it's time to kick him to the curb.

No honest communications, no relationship.

Make sure your not the one misreading his signals, words, or actions.