Ok, so I lost my virginity almost 2 weeks ago and had sex again last week. The first time I had sex, I was sore and it hurt to pee for days.Trying to avoid that the second time around, I took a hot bath to prevent it & it did, for a day. 4 days later and it hurts badly. I did a self-examination sort of thing, and it looks kind of swollen & today I noticed some brown discharge like swelling. We didn't use a condom. What should I be concerned about?

Ummm well, STD's for one! Pregnancy for another.
Did you guys use any lube? It is normal for some swelling to happen especially if no lube was used.

If your hymen was broken than you can bleed, and every one is different, so the amount of blood just depends on the woman.

You should make an appointment with you doctor. Especially since you are now sexually active, And if you are not already consider getting on some sort of birth control.

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Originally Posted by TSway

what is normal after losing virginity

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Hello T:

A LONG life full of good sex.

excon

You might have a bladder infection.
You should not be in pain four days later.