My boyfriend won't have sex anymore, help?
I don't know if it's me or him I'm driving myself crazy. We've been together 3+ years and in the beginning naturally everything was always hot but as the years passed it's not the same. He literally lasts for like a minute sometimes and at most lately 5 minutes but it's never about me. I initiate it and he climaxes, I don't. And if that's not bad enough, now I only get it once a week if I'm lucky and because I initiate it then I get more frustrated because it doesn't last long and it's all about him. I've tried talking to him about it but he gets offended and defensive and the topic changes to it being my fault. I'm 99% sure he's not cheating and I know he jerks off to porn. The whole sexy thing doesn't work either he gets turned on but he doesn't do anything about it and I refuse to do all the work myself if I'm not being pleased. I walked home crying today after a build up of frustration and getting him turned on only so he could turn on his xbox and play with his friends I feel like I'm begging it's so degrading but I don't know what to do... :-(... any advice?