Hi I'm ben
I have an issue my girlfriend ran off away from home and I got the blame and her dad told me to stay away from her and I am but I can't handle staying away from her I don't know what to do about it my hole family got the blame and I got the most of it he rang me text me I've asked her mum wats going on but I really don't know what to any more or how to cope with it I've never been through this before its all new to me if any one can get back to me it would be great

How old are you both?

I'm almost 18 and she's almost 16

I think it's best to do as her Father says , after all if she's living in his house she has to follow by the rules. You won't endear yourself to him by going behind his back.

Let them sort out their issue's and he may just respect you more for staying out of it.

Yer thts tru but she wants to talk to me in person that's what makes it hard

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Originally Posted by ttennebneb

yer thts tru but she wants to talk to me in person thats wat makes it hard

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So tell her you'll talk to her when her issues with her Father are sorted out , you'll only get involved more if you interfere in their issue's , and that doesn't bode well for any future you may want with this girl.

OK I will try thanks

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Originally Posted by ttennebneb

ok i will try thanks

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Good for you , and just come back if you need to vent, There are plenty of good people on here who will give you their opinions as well.

Good luck!

You have no choice but to give them any info you can, and persuade her to go home. Whatever she is running from, needs to be dealt with. Do you know what that is?

Yer her dad she's home now I just trusted her to go home and she didn't that's wats botherd me the most

Also I know you have troubles, but if you don't use real english your posts will start being deleted. Slang and chat talking is against the rules

I agree that you have to respect her father wishes, but did she tell you why she wanted to run away?