Dear anyone, me and my ex boyfriend met 8 months ago, we broke up 4 times in a course of 2 months. He was my first everything, first love, frist kiss, first boyfriend, and I have neverliked a guy in my life as much as him, we talked every day at least 2 hrs and it was amazing. At the end I broke up with him because things wer very shaky, for a while I had regretted breaking up with him a lot because if we stayed together I wudve been much happier, and I knew he still liked me afterwards. For the past 6 months I have cried over him at least once a week, things are like a rollercoaster, sometimes we h.u and sometimes we don't talk at all, I know he h.us with other girls , this fact used to hurt me but not anymore for I have gotten used to it, just like I have gotten used to the fact that he h.us with all my friends. I still keep my phone next to me all the time in case he calls, when my phone rings I hope its him calling, I still have the one rose he gave me , the thoguth of him brings tears to my eyes, the last time we h.u wich was very recent- it was differnet that all the other times- it didn't have that feeling of love between us, my eyes wernet even closed, I know he was just using me for so when I got home all I did was cry, I really want to get over him because I know he is over me, people that know I like him know I should get over him as well, I really have tried and its been 8 months that I've liked him, once in awhile I think about getting back with him but I will never really do it, the worst part is he thinks I h.u with other guys when in reality the only guy I ever h.u with is him, I am so stuck on him I could never even imagine being with another guy, I hate sleeping at night because all I do is think about him. I really love him and he doesn't even realize it and when people tell him he doesn't believe them, last night I was hysterically crying for 3 hrs till 1 am, my hoel family woek up and my parents were sitting next to my bed very concerned, he called me and I did not anser wich made me cry more because its rare that he calls, and that I don't anser, its just that I was crying so much I couldn't anser the phoen, I woke up in the mornign and my eyes wer puffy, the hole day I was in a bitter mood and was sleeping in all my clases. I know this is pathetic. I really miss him and want him to care about me but thers nothing ican say to him to make him care.. I guess it's the type of person he is.. his best friend also told me that he never liked me and was just using me for , its hard for me toexcept this fact, I refused to cry today. I need to get over him PLEASE HELP! This weekend I am going to be with him and I need help before I drown in my own tears-

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Ls

lss91,

No one can help you to get over your ex. At the end of any relationship there is a process, a bit like grieving, and it takes time. Go with it and take care of yourself. Eat good and get plenty of sleep. Keep busy, get out with friends, do keep fit. Just don't jump into a new relationship yet, it won't work. You need to give yourself time to heal. Be good to yourself, be kind and gentle with yourself. It will pass and you will go on to think of it as your first love. There will be many more.

Listen sweethart the longer your around this guy with those transparent emotions, It will only cause him to be desensitized to your true feelings. Its O K to be strong .Dry your eyes, move on if you have to. You might gain his respect, and then see what happens. You might be surprised. :) Good Luck.

What does h.u. mean?

Chuff, h.u. probably stands for "hooks up" with others... People consider "hooking up" anything from dating to sex. At least that's my interpretation of the phrase.

h.u means hooking up.. as in kissing (with tounge)

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I need to get over him PLEASE HELP! This weekend I am going to be with him and I need help before I drown in my own tears-

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I don't get it!! You need to get over him so you can be with him this weekend? How does that work!?