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  • Apr 24, 2010, 11:25 PM
    colorblind
    Jealous of everything better
    Hi.. I don't know what's wrong with me since past few days. I am done with my engineering graduation and I feel I am jealous of people around me having better things than me. I get pissed off on thinking about others' betterment and development. I have lost faith in me and very unhappy with myself. I don't want to start my career with a negative perspective, Please help.
  • Apr 24, 2010, 11:36 PM
    Clough
    Hi, colorblind!

    Do you already have a job lined up?

    Thanks!
  • Apr 25, 2010, 09:46 AM
    colorblind

    No.. I am confused between my PG and my job. If somebody is doing better than me in any case I feel he doesn't deserve to get the perks and appreciation for that. Coz I know he is already a sucker personality and knowledge wise. I feel life and destiny is being unfair to me. I am not accounted for the efforts, sincerity and honesty I put in. While others rely on me or if they don't for the same task, they accomplish it in a fraudulent way. I can at least justify myself with others and conclude this. What I feel is natural or I have some problem with something?
  • Apr 25, 2010, 10:44 AM
    DrBill100
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by colorblind View Post
    No..I am confused between my PG (post grad?) and my job. If somebody is doing better than me (in what way) in any case I feel he doesn't deserve to get the perks and appreciation for that (such as). Coz i know he is already a sucker personality n knowledge wise (??). I feel life and destiny is being unfair to me (How). I am not accounted for the efforts, sincerity and honesty i put in (at what). While others rely on me or if they dont for the same task, they accomplish it in a fraudulent way (example). I can at least justify myself with others n conclude this (how. example). What I feel is natural or I have some problem with something?

    Colorblind: I'm having trouble getting a general feel for your question. Would you be so kind as to clarify the items I've highlighted.
  • Apr 25, 2010, 11:37 AM
    Clough
    Yes, further explanation and clarification would be very helpful!

    Thank you for doing the amount of work that you did already on this thread, DrBill100!

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