Hey I went out with this guy for 16mths. We were great friends. And really open with each other but had completely diffferent ideas on things I'm a bit of a control freak and I have some insecurities. And he's a free bird basically likes to do what he wants when he wants. I'm the opposite. Things were OK but about 8 mnths into the relationship things changed he wouldn't text me much any mmore and when I checked his phone there where a million text messages to this girl telling her she's beautiful and stuff he wouldn't pay attention to me he'd rather hang out with mate than have night in with me and stuff and I figured it was because I too pushy so I ended it. Figured we could go on a long break and both of us agreed to see other people but stay friends, I met this other guy soon after which I started hangin out with and the ex was OK with that we stayed friends for over a year after that but talked less and then one day he just wanted nothing to do with me. Said that I ditched him for some other guy and that I'm worthless to him he's deleted me off face book changed his number and everything I'm still in contact with his rents who I get on with and he tell me to stay away than I'm not wecome anymore and that I shouldn't tlk to his family and he want nothing to do with me. It hurts I no I screwed up abit but he hated me out of the blue one minute everything was fine and the next I'm worse than vermon! He has a girlfriend and all. I don't no what to do when I ask him what happened he just says "things change" and that he doesn't care about our friendship anymore... :( it hurts a lot!
