Ask Me Help Desk - My (ex)bestfriend has started an argument over nothing?

My (ex)bestfriend has started an argument over nothing?

Well I'm 13 and I had a best friend and we actual kind of done everything together like: hanging about, checking out boys, chatting about personal problems, mending each others hearts and just basic girly best friend types or things. Then one day I seen a boy and I just was like really attracted to him and found him just amazing so my (ex)bestfriend walked over and spoke to his bestmate and then we all became friends then my bestmate(boy) asked me out with the boy I was madly in love with and now we are together :D but my best friend started saying things that made her sound like a lesbian :/ and I kind of thought she was a lesbian :L so I eventually confrunted her for telling me when and where I can see my boyfriend and when I HAVE to go see her. So we kind of argued a little and we fell out and now she is telling people I called her a lesbian and that I called them skanks and other words... and I didn't :/ and now everyone of them are going to hit me :@ and I've done nothing wrong to get hit but they are all going to but the girl I first started arguing with can't say anything to my face and always walks away when I pull her up and I don't know what to do? What should I do? But that doesn't involve telling an adult :L

I can't even make sense of your post. Its like one huge run on sentence with all these random things :?/@ all over the place. And what does mean?

I don't even understand who is mad at who or what any one is upset over because your post is so difficult to read. I'd love to help you. But you've got to make the situation clearer.

I think I understood this one. The one girl either liked the current boyfriend or the op. Now the op is with the current boyfriend and the other girl is ticked off. And The other girl is now spreading rumors.

She wants to know what she can do about this.

I say, tell an adult lol. Just kidding. I suggest keeping your distance from the gang of girls that wants to beat you up and try getting your best friend back. You best friend is someone who you will need during your school years and so not worth losing over a boy. You need to get her back as your friend and find out what the problem was in the first place. Once this is done the gang of girls will see that you two are friends again and either beat the both of you up or leave the both of you alone. Could swing either way on that one. Of course if the gang of girls come after you or your friend at all that is when an adult is needed to step in. No one deserves to get beaten up, especially not falsly.

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Originally Posted by Larken85

I think I understood this one. The one girl either liked the current bf or the op. Now the op is with the current bf and the other girl is ticked off. And The other girl is now spreading rumors.

She wants to know what she can do about this.

I say, tell an adult lol. Just kidding. I suggest keeping your distance from the gang of girls that wants to beat you up and try getting your bestfriend back. You best friend is someone who you will need during your school years and so not worth losing over a boy. You need to get her back as your friend and find out what the problem was in the first place. Once this is done the gang of girls will see that you two are friends again and either beat the both of you up or leave the both of you alone. Could swing either way on that one. Of course if the gang of girls come after you or your friend at all that is when an adult is needed to step in. No one deserves to get beaten up, especially not falsly.

Thank you that kind of helped but the only thing is that its my (ex) best friend who is going to beat me up :L so I can't exactly get her back but thanks for trying to help :)

This girl is going to beat you up, if I remember correctly from your other post that your pregnant. She's going to beat you up while your pregnant.

If I'm saying something wrong just tell me.

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Originally Posted by The Dark09

this girl is gonna beat you up, if i remember correctly from your other post that your pregnant. She's gonna beat you up while your pregnant.

if im saying something wrong just tell me.

Love, if this is true, its very important that you do get an adult involved. If you get hit in the stomach, you risk losing the baby. Not to mention any harm that could come to you if you get into a fight. But now that there seems to be a baby on the way, the baby pretty much comes first in your life for everything for at least the next 18 years.

Troll alert! Anything to get a reaction -

I not trying to be rude but, I don't believe it.

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Originally Posted by The Dark09

this girl is gonna beat you up, if i remember correctly from your other post that your pregnant. She's gonna beat you up while your pregnant.

if im saying something wrong just tell me.

Yeah she is but obv she doesn't know that I'm pregnant since I haven't been in school and haven't seen the girl

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Originally Posted by The Dark09

I not trying to be rude but, i don't believe it.

Don't believe it then :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by justcurious55

love, if this is true, its very important that you do get an adult involved. if you get hit in the stomach, you risk losing the baby. not to mention any harm that could come to you if you get into a fight. but now that there seems to be a baby on the way, the baby pretty much comes first in your life for everything for at least the next 18 years.

OK I will buti don't know who to tell ?

Well sweetie, maybe your cool new gawjuss parents can help you. Or maybe your boyfriend, since you know, he's soooo mature. Or shoot, you're oh so mature not that you're having your own baby. How come you can't figure this one out? What would you tell your child?

I think you're a troll. And I'm not taking anything you say seriously anymore

Well if your "man" was worth anything, he'd stand up for you and tell those girls to knock it off.

Or you could stand and fight for yourself instead of being a whiney child.

Aren't you suppose to be 2 days pregnant?

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Originally Posted by Lucky098

Well if your "man" was worth anything, he'd stand up for you and tell those girls to knock it off.

Or you could stand and fight for yourself instead of being a whiney child.

Arent you suppose to be 2 days pregnant??

Yeah I am 2 days pregnant so how can I just stand up and fight :confused:

I don't know. You're becoming a parent now. And you know, I'm an american. Why would you want my advice? You said americans are stupid

2 days pregnant. That's funny.

Tell your man-child boyfriend to stand up for you and to knock those girls in the head :) It's legal you know!

I've got a better idea - why doesn't someone close this thread and/or ban this obvious troll?

Ok, so you are 2 days pregnant... when did you find out? When did you have sex? Is your current boyfriend the father of the baby?

If someone is threatening you you tell an adult, your parents, a counselor at school, the police, the lady at the grocery store, just tell someone!

But I am really confused, how did you figure out you were 2 days pregnant?

And what does mean?

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Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell

Ok, so you are 2 days pregnant... when did you find out? When did you have sex? Is your current boyfriend the father of the baby?

If someone is threatening you you tell an adult, your parents, a counselor at school, the police, the lady at the grocery store, just tell someone!

But I am really confused, how did you figure out you were 2 days pregnant?

and what does TBH mean?

Heya matie... how aire you and the wee one. I shore hope you ain't been afighting. You take care of yore self.. you little fibber. :eek: this is exactly how you sound . You are a mean little person and I hope there are monsters under your bed. Gbye mate!

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