Live-in girlfriend wants a break
My live-in girlfriend for the past 2 years suddenly wants to take a break. Everything was great up until 2 weeks ago. Suddenly she wants more space (and I'm not the clingy type at all) and wants to go have fun. Well and good... but she wants a 'break' for a month to go back to her parents and figure out what she wants. This hurt me... but I told her I loved her and would back her 'play'... that she had a right to figure out what she wanted.
This happened 1/2 a week ago. She came home the next day to pick up some clothes... and asked me what I did after she left. I told her I went out with my army buds and had some drinks. She asked what they thought about this. I told her that they wanted to set me up on dates. She got angry, and I told her that I wouldn't do anything... that I'd give her some time.
Then she wanted a shirt of mine (so she could sleep in it and think of me). I gave her one. Then she wanted to borrow a military cd set (because it made her think of me)... so I gave her one. I didn't call her/text-her/e-mail her for a couple of days. Then she sent a message to me on FaceBook that she missed me.
I'm confused. I love this girl... I would do anything for me. I'm trying not to let her show how much this has hurt me and unmanned me... but do I call her? Should I not respect her and give her space?! I'm so confused I'm actually asking a question on this site (laughing).
Seriously... what's the consensus lads/lasses?