Hey. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year 4 months and some days... we have never fought or argued or anything... I trust him and he trusts me. But we don't talk like we used to. We used to talk to each other for hours on end. But we just don't anymore... I just don't know what to talk to him about anymore! Help me!

If there is chemistry in a relationship, finding topics to talk about shouldn't be hard (especially this far in a relationship). Make sure you keep things interesting in your relationship. Don't be afraid to do something nice for him and setup dates to spark things up.

A boyfriend and girlfriend should talk about what has happened that day, both the good and the bad. What makes you mad, what makes you happy. Take this time to get to know more about him and what he likes. His favorit food for example. If you can't name that then you haven't been talking enough. (well I guess my girlfriend probably doesn't know mine either, but then again I don't really have a single favorite either... ) Hers is spagetti. She is an easy meal lol. Not the easiest one to spell though lol.

Just take this time in your relationship to find things to do together, things you have in common, and who likes what. Also spend time apart so that you can tell him what you did while not with him. Like I hung out with lisa and Mary bla bla bla.