I have a twin sister and I am quite dissapointed in her!
I know I shouldn't be so hard on her but I am just so upset... :(
Aged 19 she is due for a little baby in November - She says she doesn't have the heart to remove it...
I think she is throwing her life away - And all she does is tell me to shut up, she's only 19!
She is trying to get attention by saying to all my girl mates she's pregnant and they are like awwww! And they want to be with her and not me.
I have already told her she is not coming into my flatt with it because I hate babies! :confused:

What do I say to my sister?

Apparently, you've said all you need to say. If she's smart, she'll avoid talking to you, and you won't have any problem deciding what to say to her.

Let me see, if anyone is being childish it is you.

What a mean little person you are!
It's your sisters business... Not yours.

I honestly think you should shut up too.

What right do you have to tell your sister to get rid of her baby.

Your heartless, and I have so many other words that can not describe it.

Oh and it all comes down to one word. JEALOUSY. Your Jealous,

Simple... You hate babies, well your sister is going to hate you because of your jealousy and hatefulness and nastiness and I hope and pray to God that she stays away from you and never trusts you with her baby.

I hope your sister does more then just tells you to shut up, I hope she decides to stay away from you until you receive major psychiatric care, because you need it.

You know, YOU were a baby once.

Your body grew, but your mind is a little slow catching up. It will work itself out one day.

Not too long ago, in the past century, women got married and had children at around 15 or 16. And they made it work. Now that's too young nowadays, but 19 is old enough to become a soldier and defend our/your country. It should be old enough to have a child without having someone asking you to kill it.

And as far as the "baby hating", you should keep that to yourself.

(And that's probably not the reason that your "Awww friends" are not wanting to hang out with you.)

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Originally Posted by jmjoseph

You know, YOU were a baby once.

Your body grew, but your mind is a little slow catching up. It will work itself out one day.

Not too long ago, in the past century, women got married and had children at around 15 or 16. And they made it work. Now that's too young nowadays, but 19 is old enough to become a soldier and defend our/your country. It should be old enough to have a child without having someone asking you to kill it.

And as far as the "baby hating", you should keep that to yourself.

(And that's probably not the reason that your "Awww friends" are not wanting to hang out with you.)

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I've read some other things he's written.. He does need help! Telling his sister to kill a baby. Wonder what the baby's Dad thinks about that!

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Originally Posted by Jesushelper1976

I honestly think you should shut up too.

What right do you have to tell your sister to get rid of her baby.

Your heartless, and I have so many other words that can not describe it.

oh and it all comes down to one word. JEALOUSY. Your Jealous,

Simple... You hate babies, well your sister is going to hate you because of your jealousy and hatefulness and nastiness and I hope and pray to God that she stays away from you and never trusts you with her baby.

I hope your sister does more then just tells you to shut up, I hope she decides to stay away from you until you receive major psychiatric care, because you need it.

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Why do I need help? Because I've grown up in a family that hate kids? Even though my mother had 4 she hates babies so much?

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Originally Posted by xbloodntearsx

Why do i need help? Because ive grown up in a family that hate kids? Even though my mother had 4 she hates babies so much?

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The bottom line with your sister is that she has to make her own decisions. She may be 19 with her whole life ahead of her. She still does especially if she has a good support system to help her. I don't mean money-wise or babysitter-wise, but emotionally. It's support that every mother needs. Just someone to listen to them when they feel over-whelmed.

I am concerned about you and your allusion to emotional/mental abuse by your mother.

I don't think you are a bad person. I think you are running scared. I hope you will really think about finding a counselor to sit down with and find out where your anger, fear, etc. is coming from and how to let it go.

Good luck.

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Originally Posted by xbloodntearsx

Why do i need help? Because ive grown up in a family that hate kids? Even though my mother had 4 she hates babies so much?

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Do not blame your hatred AND JEALOUSY on your family. Your old enough you can make your own mind up about things and actually be moral and make decisions to love others and support others instead of trying to kill them and hurt them , etc...

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Originally Posted by Jesushelper1976

Do not blame your hatred AND JEALOUSY on your family. Your old enough you can make your own mind up about things and actually be moral and make decisions to love others and support others instead of trying to kill them and hurt them and etc...

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I agree Joe... He didn't answer my question about the father. WHAT DOES HE THINK OF YOU TALKING TO YOUR SISTER THAT WAY? Don't say your mother hated kids.. I don't believe that for a second. I know you have a girlfriend, what does she think of the way you feel about children?

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

I agree Joe... He didn't answer my question about the father. WHAT DOES HE THINK OF YOU TALKING TO YOUR SISTER THAT WAY? Don't say your mother hated kids..I don't believe that for a second. I know you have a gf, what does she think of the way you feel about children?

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Where is the baby's father? Does he know you talk to your sister that way? You seem to be really happy with your girlfriend. How did the dinner go with your gfs parents? Do they or she know how you feel about children?:confused:

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Originally Posted by xbloodntearsx

Why do i need help? Because ive grown up in a family that hate kids? Even though my mother had 4 she hates babies so much?

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Perhaps don't say anything to your sister?

I think that you're young, confused and uncertain about a range of things, particularly relating to sex and girls. Given that you're still a virgin, it's probably quite confronting to have a pregnant sister, I would imagine.

Your sister may well be throwing her life away, but it's her decision now, and it would be really nice for her if you were more supportive. I mean, there is not much that she can do about it now!

Some people don't like babies - and you may be one of them - but hey, this is your chance to get to like them. They turn into people and this child will be your nephew or niece.

You can't change the situation - so why don't you try and adapt to it - that's what growing up is all about.

I do not think his sister is throwing a way her life at all. She is doing the right thing by keeping the family and moving forward in life while your sitting there being jealous and extremely hateful.

I honestly think that maybe your just another troll. According to your other posts that have been made. It seems that maybe you're a lot younger then you say mentality wise and actual age wise as well.

Sounds like your sister is the mature one in the family and you need counseling to work on your major and dangerously jealous and bitter feelings.

I do mean as soon as possible.

You need some serious emotional help!