I am now 19 and still - a virgin...
I have got a girlfriend - I have since I was 16 and I can tell she wants to have sex with me - It just - I don't like people are near my penis...
It freaks me out
It doesn't even get hard when she feels me up!
I know I don't have a fear of pleasure because I saw a doctor and he didn't know what to suggest

Help Me!!

Have you masturbated before?
Do you experience any pain during that process?
Do you experience any pain when you touch or move your penis?

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Originally Posted by CarrotTalker

Have you masturbated before?
Do you experience any pain during that process?
Do you experience any pain when you touch or move your penis?

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Of Course I have!
Sometimes it depends how long I do it
And not usually

I think you need to see a therapist. I think this goes beyond physical and well into mental and emotional territory.

How much of your fear is based on touching leading to intercourse leading to possible pregnancy. Your thread about your sister (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ng-465317.html) sheds a little light on just how afraid of children you are. It also sheds light on what might have been an abusive childhood. Mentally and emotionally if not physically.

Please, talk to someone face to face.