I have blonde hair with red highlights I hate the red! How do I get it out without the Blonde fadding?

You will have to redye your hair again. Only this time use a toner that has a neutral base - not a yellow base. Find a blonde color similar to your present blonde color and redye. You'll get rid of the red. I've been dying/toning my hair for 30 years and found that the neutral base is the best for getting true blonde color.