Married but attracted to co-worker
I have been married almost 4 yrs. Have not been truly happy in about 2 my wife and I fight a lot and usually about unimportant stuff. A lot of the issues are because of her family and I argue with her because I don't want her to turn into her mother. But since my daughter was born in 2007 I knew things won't end well between us I always told myself no matter what happens I need to protect my daughter even if its divorce. I recently got close with a co worker we just talk take our lunch break together twice we know how we feel about each other and know it's a difficult situation. What should I do? I don't want my wifew to think I left her for another woman and I don't want to risk not getting custody of my daughter( I would want 100% because I work and she doesnt)