She says she's into me, but I don't feel she is.
Hello, I have been in a relationship now for 6 months. We both have very similar interests, I am 25 she is 22. Before this I was without a girlfriend for 5 years, and she has been in a relationship since she was 18. I have spent almost every day with this girl for 6 months, I do love her and she says she loves me. But I just don't feel it. We cuddle and hug and give peck kisses, but the intimacy is where it is lacking. I don't know if I should give out some of this info but I think I should give all the facts. Since the 2nd week of being together, we have been having sex. It was a lot at first, but since the past 2 months it has slowed down a lot. It's down to once a week if that now, she keeps saying it's because she is stressed from work and everyday things and that it will get better. She only works 8 hours a day at an office where she sits on a computer. All of the stressors she told me have been gone and the intimacy has just been going downhill. She does not give me oral sex even though I am more than happy to do it for her. She doesn't even give me hand jobs because it "tires" her out too quickly. She doesn't like to kiss except for peck on the lips or cheek. She has never initiated intimacy, it has always been me. It just feels to me that I am not a priority on her list, and when I talk to her about it, she assures me that I am her number one priority. She has told me about her past 2 relationships of 3 years total where it was the guy not being sexual with her, so I would think she knows exactly where I am coming from. I just feel like this iust more of a friendship than a relationship. Please help me, I have tried everything I can think of. I love her to death, but intimacy is a huge part of a relationship in my eyes anyway. Thanks much for your time.