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  • Apr 11, 2010, 07:18 PM
    ANJANAVAS7
    I love a guy but he cheated me but I want to marry him only we are in same caste.
    I love a guy but he cheated on me, but I will marry him, only we are in the same caste. What can I do to solve our problem?
  • Apr 11, 2010, 07:21 PM
    Enigma1999

    Hello A,

    With all do respect, why would you want to spend the rest of your life with this person who cheated on you?
  • Apr 11, 2010, 08:00 PM
    Wondergirl

    Is this going to be an arranged marriage?
  • Apr 12, 2010, 01:52 PM
    talaniman

    Why would you marry the guy who cheats on you?

    What does being in the same caste have to do with it any way?

    Did you mean, not in the same caste??
  • Apr 12, 2010, 02:21 PM
    MyBrainIsMyDrug

    Why do this to yourself seriously...


    Once a cheater always a cheater... are you going to be so forgiving when he does it again with a ring on his finger? Or when there's a child involved


    No just no
  • Apr 12, 2010, 03:54 PM
    taaam

    The only way to solve the problem is to leave. Other options are out of question once someone has cheated on you.
  • Apr 12, 2010, 03:56 PM
    jmjoseph

    The world is full of guys that won't treat you with such disrespect.

    Go find one.

    Good luck.
  • Apr 12, 2010, 04:05 PM
    Enigma1999
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jmjoseph View Post
    The world is full of guys that won't treat you with such disrespect.

    Go find one.

    Good luck.

    Isn't that the truth!
  • Apr 12, 2010, 04:43 PM
    Devorameira

    Are you insane? Why would you even think about marrying a cheater?

    You trusted him and he cheated and broke your trust. And you say you still love him? Are you his mom? Are you going to love this poor child unconditionally?

    In a relationship the most important things are trust and respect. Think about it:

    Can you trust him? - I think not!

    Do you feel he respects your feelings? - Obviously he doesn't.

    Does he deserve your "love"? - Definitely NO!

    You probably think that there is something you can do or change that will solve the problem and he will be faithful. It is not going to be that way. Forget the past. Learn from it and move on. DUMP HIM!

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