I was with a man that was in is 20s we are 8 years apart and been together for a year I noticed in some comments some people said its when a man is developing and that at my age I wouldn't understand what I was looking for. Some said to not worry about guys and stay in school. My ex boyfriend wanted me to stay in school and stop doing drugs would that change your opininon if we were together? Would that be wrong?

NO! but I would hope you would stay in school, stop doing drugs, and hanging with older guys, because you're a child who needs to grow and develop at your own pace, but he gave you some good advice you should take. It will make a world of difference when your 16,17, 18 years old and have an education.

A 12, 13, 14, 15, year old girl has no business with a grown boyfriend. Period! Even if he wants the best for you.

Please say your older than 12, as that's too freaking young to ruin your life with drugs and screw up your schooling and your future. Much to young to be a loser already.

How old are you?
Whoever is telling you to stay in school and get off drugs is giving you some good advice.
This guy in his 20s who is eight years older than you needs to leave you alone unless you are at least 18.

You met this person when you were 11 and you were "with" him? This is insanity to infinity.

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Originally Posted by califdadof3

You met this person when you were 11 and you were "with" him? This is insanity to infinity.

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If that is the case it is disgusting. But I'm not understand what your question is.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

If that is the case it is disgusting. But I'm not understand what your question is.

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According to the OP. They have been with this person for a year already. Being "with" someone implies adult activity.

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Originally Posted by baliey

i was with a man that was in is 20s we are 8 years apart and been together for a year i noticed in some comments some ppl said its when a man is developing and that at my age i wouldnt understand what i was looking for. some said to not worry about guys and stay in school. my ex boyfriend wanted me to stay in school and stop doing drugs would that change your opininon if we were together? would that be wrong??

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Whether you are in school or out of school, on drugs or off them, this relationship is shameful. This male ought to be strung up by his baseballs.
Where are your parents?

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Whether you are in school or out of school, on drugs or off of them, this relatioship is shameful. This male out to be strung up by his baseballs.
Where are your parents?

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He wouldn't have any baseballs if it were one of my girls. :eek: