Chances of getting back together
So me and my girlfriend of 5 months broke up about a month ago because we were getting into small arguments the last 3 weeks of the relationship and because she didn't want a boyfriend right now. I really want to get back with her because of how much she meant to me. After we broke we still kept in contact, but after doing some research of my own I learned that it was a mistake to do that if I wanted to get back with her. We talked over Facebook and texted a bit. We talked over the phone a few times but we still got into two arguments even after we broke up because I had told her over the phone that I couldn't be her friend right now because I couldn't bear myself to keep in contact with her because it hurt not being with her so I told her that I couldn't be her friend. After that argument I said OK we can still be friend and stuff. So then later that week we were talking over Facebook and she asked me what my feelings for her were and I told her everything. Then I asked her to tell me the as well and she said that she wants to tell me she loves me over the phone whenever we talk and that she misses being with me and that if she could have a boyfriend right now it would be me. So lately I found out she is interested in this other guy but still cares about me. Now I don't know what to do, should I not contact her anymore and just let things with her and the guy she's interested in work out or should I keep talking to her but keep it minimal?
Why do people play games?
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I don't understand why people play games with others or play with the other person's feeling. Why can't they just be completely honest with there other person and tell them what they really feel even if its going to hurt the other person? I mean I would rather know the truth right off the bat than have my hopes up and later find out that they lied to me and played with my feelings. Like I don't understand that. Even if they still want to keep someone there as a back up it's still messed up. Like why can't they think about what they are doing and put themselves in the other person's shoes and imagine how they would feel if the same thing was done to them. I mean its really stupid don't you guys think?