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Should I Be Mad?

Ok I'm really confused. I met this guy who claimed he was 15 and we hit it off (im 16 and a bi male). We lasted about 4 days until he told me he was a girl (he sounded like one but claimed it was just his voice). She told he that she was a girl and that she was actually 14. We were really close and we really liked each other. She still says she loves me and all that and she didn't mean to take it this far (she made a my yearbook and claimed she was a guy ECT.). She says that she still wants me and that she is really sorry.

What do I do? I mean she treated me awesome, but I didn't like that she lied to me. I Really love her and I don't feel hurt. I don't feel mad. I don't get it though?:confused::confused::confused::confused:
Should I be mad? What would you guys do?

You lasted 4 days and you really love each other? And she had you convinced she was a guy? Is this for real?

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Originally Posted by justcurious55

you lasted 4 days and you really love each other? and she had you convinced she was a guy? is this for real?

Well we were talking for longer than that and I've met guys with the same type of voice. And yes this is for real. Either help me or don't answer

Don't even start with the attitude. "help me or don't answer"

This sounds ridiculous (although some of the stuff I went through when I was 14-16 was ridiculous too) so I wasn't about to waste time trying to help if you were just a troll looking for attention.

Here's the thing, when you are 14 and 16, there isn't really the whole true love thing like in the movies. Even if you decided to date this girl, its not likely you'll be together for long. She's already shown you she's immature and not trustworthy, not a good way to start any relationship. And really, at those ages, that's a big age gap. You've been in high school a while, might even be close to driving or already be driving, have had a little more life experience. And she's what, a freshman? Maybe even still in 8th grade? It's not like 21 and 23 when two years difference is no big deal. Its still a big deal for your ages. I'd say its time to move on.

And lying to you and deceiving you is not treating you awesome.

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Originally Posted by justcurious55

don't even start with the attitude. "help me or don't answer"

this sounds ridiculous (although some of the stuff i went through when i was 14-16 was ridiculous too) so i wasn't about to waste time trying to help if you were just a troll looking for attention.

here's the thing, when you are 14 and 16, there isn't really the whole true love thing like in the movies. even if you decided to date this girl, its not likely you'll be together for long. she's already shown you she's immature and not trustworthy, not a good way to start any relationship. and really, at those ages, that's a big age gap. you've been in high school a while, might even be close to driving or already be driving, have had a little more life experience. and she's what, a freshman? maybe even still in 8th grade? it's not like 21 and 23 when two years difference is no big deal. its still a big deal for your ages. i'd say its time to move on.

and lying to you and deceiving you is not treating you awesome.

Yeah, sorry to sound rude. Im just so confused. I really didn't see this coming!:p
Thanks for some insight though! Ill have to use it!

Maybe you not being mad is a good trait. Some people get mad over everything. But you should see that she already betrayed your trust. And in any relationship, whether its romantic, friendship, a work or business relationship, there has to be trust.

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Originally Posted by justcurious55

maybe you not being mad is a good trait. some people get mad over everything. but you should see that she already betrayed your trust. and in any relationship, whether its romantic, friendship, a work or business relationship, there has to be trust.

Thanks! It helps a lot!