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  • Apr 7, 2010, 08:33 AM
    teejayfatmeche
    Just had a baby, boyfriend of 7 years has another one on the way, what to do?
    I just had a baby in January, just found out that my boyfriend of 7 years has another baby on the way that is due in July! His explanation was that we were having problems! I don't think I can forgive and forget, but I do love him so much that I might let this situation just past. I am so hurt and confused. He says he loves me and wants to be with me, le'-sigh... I don't know what to do! Please people remember I am hurting from this so please no negative answers!
  • Apr 7, 2010, 08:40 AM
    I wish

    You have a child to worry about now, so it's very important to have a healthy environment for your child to grow up in. If he can't regain your trust, then your child's unbringing is in jepordy.

    Fix the relationship or show him the door.
  • Apr 7, 2010, 08:47 AM
    Homegirl 50

    You say you may be willing to let the situation just pass but this baby will still be there. He will need to pay child support and you may need to deal with baby momma drama.
    Your baby is your priority at this point. You need to ask yourself if you want you and the baby in this drama.
    I wish you well

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