My mom is always telling me not to do things that are rude but now she won't let me finish a single sentence without me being wrong and she says she does not care about my apinoin

Do you live in the same home as your mom? How old are you? Answers to those will get you a better answer. A lot is situational.

I am ten and yes I do live in the same house and you should know I asked her if I could go out of the house for a walk and she said I couldn't leave the house... now?

Its hard to say but maybe she has been under a lot of stress and she is somehow taking it out on you. Do you raise your voice to her? Sometimes a whisper is louder then a shout when trying to make your point. Are you both arguing lately more because of changes you might want to happen ?

Mabey sometimes when your rude to your mother it hurts her fealing. I know when I'm rude to my mum it hurts her fealing so watch what you say and I think I know why you could'nt go out because you where rude and now your getting punished

Um if you need someone to talk to I have a lot of advise because I forgot to meten I am 11 turing 12 on October when your birthday??
And my parents tell me to shut up all the time but I get on with it

I have an 11 year old. He's allowed to play in the neighborhood, go with a friend to the nearby park, walk the dogs (with a friend or with us) and other things that I find are appropriate at his age. He is not allowed to go out for a walk alone.

Parents are weird, they want to keep their kids safe, they want to make sure that their kids learn right from wrong, learn to be productive human beings. Sometimes, when dealing with a 10 year old that thinks he/she knows everything, you have to put your foot down.

At 10 you really don't know enough to make decisions on your own. You're a child and it's your parents job to make sure you're safe and that you learn what you need to to survive when you're older.

I have a question, because I know I wouldn't allow this. Do your parents know that you are on the internet? Do they know that you are signing up to websites on the internet? I'm glad you stumbled upon AMHD because I know the people on this site would never allow anyone to steer you in the wrong direction, but I can't say the same for other sites.

It worries me that you're here asking this question and it seems that mom and dad don't know.

You'll understand one day, when you have a child of your own.

Until then, I wouldn't recommend taking the advice of an 11 year old, even if he/she is almost 12. That person is in the same boat as you, and doesn't have enough life experience to give you valuable advice.

Listen to mom and dad, they love you and only want what's best for you, even if it seems that they often don't allow you to do what you want.

Good luck.

I always get over it but she does not let me forget it any time we fight she brings up every time.

Well that's just mean she should stick to the subject and not the past

Hope that's good advise

I know what that peson was saying about not litsening to me but I know what she means but you can choose to litsen to me or her its up to you

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Originally Posted by Sophiaross101

I always get over it but she does not let me forget it any time we fight she brings up every time.

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Why not try telling her that it hurts when she brings up things you did in the past? Maybe she's not aware that she's doing it.

One thing to remember is that parents are humans too, we also make mistakes, we don't know everything. Just tell her but tell her in a calm reasonable manner. If you yell it out then she's less likely to listen, just like you're less likely to listen if she yells. Right? :)

Ya I guess you are right and may I ask how old are you??

Thanks a lot
And that is not sarcasm!!

What do you mean ?