For arguments sake, im going to make up random names to use to make it abit more entertaining, and so people will understand what im talking about

I recently split up with "Jim" about 2 months ago, and I've found out that one of my bestfriends, "Jeff", has liked me for 2 years. So I waited a while until I got over Jim, and afterwards I started going out with Jeff. Now we have only been together for a week or two, but I want to have sex with him. I know it's abit soon, but after being in a sexual relationship with Jim for so long, I feel like I want it so badly because I haven't had it for a while. Jeff is a virgin, and he's more of a sweet, caring guy, whereas Jim was more of a 'man slag', and he thought about sex all the time. I don't want to tell Jeff I want to have sex with him in case I frighten him off, because I really do like him, but I want it so badly. What should I do, please help, I feel like I'm going crazy =/

So how old are all the people in this "entertaining" story?

Sublimate.

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Originally Posted by jmjoseph

So how old are all the people in this "entertaining" story?

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We are all pretty much the same age, which is 16, there's only a few months difference

Well love you are still young so please practice safe sex... but if you want him... do you guys make out and stuff because if you do test it and see how far it goes... if it don't get that far give him some time if you care about him he is worth waiting for... dont ruin a great relationship by pressuring him... good luck love

Well I think you should hold off. Sex is supposed to be special. He is a virgin, and it should be special for him too. 2 weeks really isn't a long time is it? Especially since once you lose it, you can never get it back.

The more I try to give you good advice, the more I think it is wrong that 16 year olds are having sex and "wanting it so baldy".
So I guess I have nothing more to add besides, if you do decide to have sex again, please use protection.