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  • Apr 3, 2010, 06:13 PM
    Joostin
    Is this breakup permanent or salvagable?
    Ok so 2 weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me after being together almost 2 years. I'm 19 and she's 18 and she said I didn't let her hang out with her friends enough. She never talked to me about it just up and left because she was angry and was thinking emotionally. We haven't contacted each other since because I'm under the impression she just needs time alone for a little while before she realizes what she did. About a week after the breakup, she posed on her myspace that she misses me, but I haven't talked to her yet. Her dad loved me as her boyfriend so I talked to him about it while she was gone, and he said she'll miss me eventually because we never argued or fought about anything, and when we did we fixed it really fast. I was a really good boyfriend to her, she was just being immature and not thinking things through. That's what her dad told me
  • Apr 3, 2010, 06:50 PM
    talaniman

    That's what a dad would say, but if she comes back, it has to be on her own, without your influence at all, or it will mean nothing.

    Leave her, and her dad alone. Sorry guy, I know it just sucks right now, but hang in and just do your own thing without her for a while.
  • Apr 3, 2010, 07:45 PM
    BWK10

    Just let her be, and let it be that way. She is thinking about you, trust me... and she can only come back on her own, nobody can influence her. Just stay no contact until you hear from her, if you don't... its over. Give her two weeks.
  • Apr 3, 2010, 09:30 PM
    the_original

    Nc and space will be the only things that MIGHT make her come back. Give it time man
  • Apr 3, 2010, 10:43 PM
    amicon

    All you can do is go no contact and leave her alone.
    That includes getting updates about her from her family as well.

    Live your own life,keep busy and do your own thing.

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