The music video I am looking for from what I can remember... a girl is singing to a guy, he is sitting in a chair. The roles are reversed, she the singer is acting like the dude in the video and the guy is like the girl... so he understands what she goes through... shes in a suit and has a hat on... something about shutting a cellphone off how she was out hanging with her friends and he is sitting in the chair waiting for her to call!! Can anyone help me please its driving me nuts. Its hip-hop or RnB I'm not sure.

Beyonce if I were a boy

Ciara - like a boy.