I have 2 daughters (8 and 4 years old) by the same man.  We were never married, but I
	
	
		I have 2 daughters (8 and 4 years old) by the same man.  We were never married, but I was the sole supporter of our family for 10 years in CA. He stayed home (against my wishes) to "care" for them... he did a fair to poor job.  He is an alcoholic and drug addict, never seeking treatment, last DUI more than 7 years ago...  Now he has run off to Mexico (7 weeks ago) with a teenager girl. We have had no contact with him.  How do I file for full custody or child abandonment?