Ok so I'm a junior in college and I met this girl I liked for a while we've had sex but she stopped me. But I always like her but never tried too hard after the fact because she always hung around me and my friends and she always stopped talking to guys she was interested in because they wanted more or other reasons.

Well latley we hooked up again and this time the next day she would sit next to me and like rub my leg, and you know flirt. She asked me to come over one morning and I did and we made out and just laid around having a good time. She's always been around and I really like her and don't want to mess things up.

I don't know if she wants a relationship with me or what. I like being around her but I don't want to annoy her. What do you think I could do to make her really like me and keep things good between us. When should I ask her to hangout and like how do you think I should be around her. Show her I really like her or just idkkkk,. I'm so confused and just don't want to mess this up. I need your help ladies :confused:


Like I don't want to say or do anything stupid to make her not be interested in me. Can anyone help? Thanks

Well I'm no expert but I don't think you can make someone interested in you its just that they either are or they are not. Do you think she is looking for a relationship or just a good time?

Sounds like friends with benefits to me.

You shouldn't be scared to ask her "where this is heading?" See if you can get on the same page.

If you're scared that a simple question like that would push her away, then she's not taking you seriously anyway.

What is there to mess up? She makes out with you, and flirts. You better find out if she is serious, or just wants attention, before you get all carried away by your feelings dude, and fall in to deep to get out. Ask her on a date, and she what she says. Just because you like her, and are thrilled by her lips, and hips, doesn't mean she is the one to have a relationship with.

Pay attention with the big head, not the little one.

If you want any chance at a relationship with this girl then you have to learn to talk to her, otherwise you might as well just give up now.

Ask her how she feels about you. Talk to her about where your hookups are going, if that's all she wants or if there's a chance of more. Communicate!

If you're too afraid to communicate with her then your relationship is doomed before it even starts.

Most ladies like the man to take the first step. Go out on the limb.. be brave.. and ask her out on dates. It can be anywhere from a movie and dinner, to going to a party together. But be sure to make it clear... that is a DATE and not just you being nice and paying for her dinner.