Boyfriend won't defend me nor' let me defend myself towards his friends..
I've known my boyfriend for about 5 years now. We dated once in grade 8, things ended and we've been friends ever since.. Now we've been re-dating for about 3 months. We are both 17.
His friends find it funny to ridicule me and always put me down in one way or another.
My boyfriend never says anything, not even something as simple as "this girl is my girlfriend now and you guys need to just piss off", and whenever I tell him he never has anything to say about the matter so I finally told him that I could no longer deal with them saying crap and I would sooner or later flip out and he would possibly be called the boy with the spaz girlfriend and if he said something he might be called whipped or whatever other cruel things his friends enjoy saying.. So then he agreed and I said well.. what am I suppose to do? Pretend your friends' don't verbally harass/hurt me, and not say anything? And he said 'Yes I guess that's what we'll have to do'..
I'm just SUPER confused. Is their anything I could say to him to let him know that I would like him to be there and would be grateful if he said something to them?
Because all the hints I'm sending don't seem to be getting across to him very well..
And I'm about to snap on his friends very shortly.. but I have a feeling they'd just say more crap about me.. '-.-.
- twilightFAN1901.
