I just recently got dumped by my 1 year and 3 months boyfriend and we have a baby together I love him still so much and I've tried everything to get him back and he keeps telling me I don't make him happy I don't no what to do anymore I just want the best for him and me and I just want us to be happy together
What do I do

It sounds like this relationship is over. You can't make him love you. You can't force him to come back. He IS responsible for child support, and it would be nice for the baby if it has a father in its life.

It's time to move on emotionally.

It's tough when someone you love lets you down. Think of your little one . You will feel better in time. I know your heart is broken and you feel betrayed and lost. Time is the only thing that will make you feel better.

Your baby will get you through this. That baby is your first priority now.
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Hello T,

Just out of curiosity, what was the reason for you not making him happy, please?

How old are you guys?

You can be honest about your feelings to him and see how he responds, but you can't force him to get back with you.

Having a child does complicate matters. You have to act in the best interest of your child, so if you can't have a healthy relationship with this man, then you're better off going your separate ways, for yourself and for your child.

You also need to make sure that he does his share in supporting your child.

According to him, that's not going to happen so get the child support and a better life for you and your child together.

Baby, or not, together he ain't the one for you. Sorry for your loss, but you have to accept it.

I think it's done and over with. All you have left to do is to move on. This man is 50% of the relationship, and he doesn't want it, and you can't force him to change his mind... it would be disrespectful to even try.
Move onward and upward. Best of luck to you.

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Originally Posted by jaime90

I think it's done and over with. All you have left to do is to move on. This man is 50% of the relationship, and he doesn't want it, and you can't force him to change his mind...it would be disrespectful to even try.
move onward and upward. Best of luck to you.

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Move on, concentrate on your child! Goodye is hard to say. Be sure you get a good lawyer or go to the child support agency in your area. Good Luck and I'm so sorry.:)