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  • Mar 24, 2010, 10:30 AM
    addicted13
    Met a girl out of town
    Was in Vegas over the weekend and met this girl there and we talked for a while before I had to leave. I got her number before I left and she had me call her phone so she had my number. I really want to see this girl again but she lives a couple hours away. I haven't called her yet but want to call her before I wait too long. Problem is I wouldn't be able to go out of town for a couple more weeks. Anyone have and suggestions how I should handle this? Thanks
  • Mar 24, 2010, 10:35 AM
    kp2171

    Not sure what the problem is...

    The facts are the facts... you canot go out of town for a time and if that's a problem... well, then you know. Last thing you probably want is someone p!ssed at you right out of the gate because you are living life the way it has to happen, right?

    So... call her soon to reconnect. If seeing her comes up, let her know you'd like to see her again and that it'll be a few weeks before that can happen.

    Again... I just don't care too much for pretense, especially at the start of a possible relationship.

    If you have to bend over backwards to please her now... imagine whatll it'll be like when the new shine wears off.

    So... initiate the call. Show some interest. Don't show that you'd be willing to turn your life upside down for her. I'm thinking open honesty might actually work?

    Please post more if there's info we should know...
  • Mar 26, 2010, 10:45 AM
    addicted13

    Meh, called her and got voicemail. Still has not returned my call. Oh well...
  • Mar 27, 2010, 07:39 PM
    talaniman

    Right, oh well. Hey you already knew the chances of hooking up were slim from the get go. She did too.
  • Mar 28, 2010, 11:54 AM
    Devorameira

    If she's interested, she'll call you back in the next few days... otherwise just forget her.
  • Mar 29, 2010, 10:59 AM
    addicted13

    She called back! Have talked to her a couple of times the last few days. Seemed to go pretty well. Any advice on how to bring up going to see her?
  • Mar 29, 2010, 07:09 PM
    Jake2008
    If she's only two hours a way, you can just ask her if she'd be interested in going out for lunch or dinner when you have a day off.

    I suppose a four hour drive in one day may seem a bit much for some, but I drive a lot, and don't find that bad once in a while.

    Might be worth your while.

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