Is it only fair to share a car if my income is able to get us the car?
Hello again!
I have a problem... my fiancé went to this place to get a deal on a car. But they told him that he doesn't make enough... but if he gets my income he might be able too. I'm not sure if I want to do it cause my fiancé is kind of stingy. He does a lot of "my car, my car" talk, though we talked about sharing the car before. Its almost like I have to keep reminding him that its going to be "our" car.
So I ask him "does this mean that were going to be sharing the car? Like I take you to work some days and you take me to work some days?
He goes: "Y not?"
So I say "I just want to make sure that's we sharing cause I don't want to help out with purchasing a car if he's going to have it all the time"
So basically he says if he's putting the down payment down he's going to drive it. Then he says if he wants to go out and drive the car.. hes going. And he said if he wants to go to Virginia (him hometown) he's going. Pretty much without me, is what he's saying.
So I don't feel right about doing it now. He won't be able to get the car without my help! So I feel that it should be equally shared (whether he paying the down payment or not).
What do you guys think?