Girlfriend and I had been going out for 3 years. She was completely in love with me and depended on me for most things. However for the last 6 months of the relationship things got very dull as I think we both got too comfortable with each other and stopped making any effort. I therefore broke up with her and she sort of agreed that it was probably a good idea although she didn't want to do it at all. She was completely heartbroken. Pretty much immediately I thought I'd made a mistake, but for fear of putting her through it again, I didn't do anything until I was completely sure. A few months later I was sure, and tried to talk to her about it, but she says that she was over me in a couple of months, so didn't want to get back together, although it took her quite a while to make this decision. She is now dating a guy that a few months previous her and I had been joking about how ugly he is. Even speaking to her recently she admits he isn't good looking, but defends it as saying looks aren't everything (which of course they aren't, but physical attraction is surely important?).
I've reached a point where I don't really want her in my life any more. When I broke up with her I treated her so well and tried everything not to hurt her, but in the last few months after she turned me down she hasn't been there at all for me and has now just shacked up with this guy and plastered it all over Facebook knowing I would find out immediately.
So, the question is - is she on the rebound or just a selfish girl? Like I say, I don't want her in my life at all anymore, she just isn't the loving person I was in love with anymore, but am curious as to what you guys think?
Does it sound like she is on the rebound?