Girlfriend broke up, I disappeared for 5 weeks and she's back begging
So my girlfriend was having a tough time with school, she started getting depressed and snapping at me all the time. I eventually told her I was sick of this and within a few weeks of that she said she wanted to break up to sort herself out. I was mad at this so told her not to call me again. She did of course and I ignored all her calls and texts.
She rang yesterday a LOT of times and since Id cooled down a lot and had some time to think since we've been apart I decided to pick up. She was in tears on the phone 'I made a huge mistake and I really want you back'
I said I didn't know if this was possible, I explained when you have problems you don't break up and run away to deal with them on your own. She said she didn't want to put me through her bad behaviour anymore so it was for the best. I said that I was unsure if I could give her another chance to break my heart again, she begged and begged. I said goodbye. She called me up again today and begged again.
Now my mum is away from next weekend for 2 weeks. She would always pretty much move in and keep my company while my mum was gone. I said we need to talk in person about this if anything is going to happen. Now she's at school Monday to Thursday and she is home Friday through Sunday.
She said she'd come over like she usually would next weekend when my mums away. I said why not see me this weekend and we can talk then. She said no, id rather come over next weekend like I was supposed to, this is the first time you've answered my calls in over 5 weeks so I don't want to rush things. So I told her I'd let her know whether she could come to talk next weekend or not.
Do you think Im trying to rush things by having her come this weekend? Or should I wait until next weekend and she can come like she was supposed to?
I do have a tendency to rush things, but Ive always been the type of person that wants to solve things right here and now. If I do wait until next week, I won't be contacting her again until I see her. Im not open to discuss anything over the phone, only to arrange a time to meet.
Thanks