I have stress incontinence, meaning a small amount of urine leaks out when I cough, sneeze, etc. I do Kegels, not regularly, but I know how to tighten around my partner when he's inside... Recently he had his finger in me, playing with me, and I was super relaxed and it was the first time I was really letting go with him, to be so relaxed and turned on so much, when all of a sudden it felt like he was pressing a button deep inside, and suddenly to my extreme embarrassment I was gushing fluid, all over his hand and arm, and all over the sheets... I was so mortified, thinking I'd peed on him, but I'd gone to the bathroom before we'd gotten started.. he was the one who told me how hot it was, and I was still so super confused.. he thought it was hot to be peed on?? But he told me it was female ejaculation... but when he left the room later, I smelled the sheets, and to me it smelled like urine, so now I'm super confused... could it have been both? I'd emptied my bladder... So I tried stimulating myself the other night, but what leaked out was the tiniest amount of fluid, urine for sure, mixed with white stuff (vaginal fluids? I'd gotten wet so I could comfortably insert my finger... ) And I definatley wasn't relaxed, and I'm way more turned on when he does the same thing to me... So, the other night with him, what I'd love to know is, what happened?

/shrug

The jury is out on this one. There are no definitive scientific tests either way on the matter of female ejaculation.

If it smelled like urine, there probably WAS urine in it--especially with the stress incontinence added in.

However--if YOU enjoyed it, and HE enjoyed it--where's the problem?

Sounds like Synnen is on to something. There are numerous reports that women do not squirt as they put it, but have to admit I have seen it happen, and I don't believe women pee that much and for that long for it to be urine every time, and especially when the bladder is not full and pressing.
As far as trying to make it happen again, my exwife and I were married nearly 20 years and in all that time there was only one episode of this happening. I tried often to get it to happen again, and it didn't as she never again got that relaxed thinking she did not want it to happen again I guess.

You said it felt like he was pressing a button. This in my opinion sounds like direct G spot stimulation and this guy sounds like he is freakin good at it. I could take some pointers from him I think lol. But anyway, I would say just relax and let it flow... so to speak. He thinks its hot whether you pee on him or ejaculate on him. What does it matter. Lots of people enjoy being peed on, (I personally have never expierenced it) and maybe this could be a new stepping stone in your sexual adventures with him. My advice, whatever you do, keep it hot ;)

I guess I was just confused, since this has never happened before! My bladder definitely wasn't full, since I'd already gone, and there was a TON of it! My gyno said the slight urine smell could be because this guy is a new partner, and his PH balance knocked mine out of whack. She also said that it couldn't be both... And it's not, cause it's happened several more times, all I can say is WOW! It IS hot! It didn't smell like anything at all these last few times, we both checked. He said it just smells like me, and that it's been one of his long time fetishes that no one's ever fulfilled till now! Thank god, cause he wouldn't want to be peed on, lol!

And now I've been doing my kegels every day, lol! Like you say, Larken85, keeping it hot!

If it smells like urine... its urine. Now there are people that like that sort of thing... if he and you both like it... thats between the two of you. Enjoy.

It is most def urine... It is hard to actually achieve female ejaculation. I can't do it because I am paranoid I will pee. He may be hitting your g spot but when you are going to ejaculate it feels like you are going to pee. And it should only be about 2-3 tbs of ejaculation (at the most). It depends how much you produce and decide to store before you let it out. And when you do ejaculate your genitals should feel extremely sensitive (kinda like how a guy's penis feels after he gets an orgasm). So you would have to recooperate too! Lol

/sigh

Oh for heaven's sake--I'm almost missing Choux.

OKAY!

ANY opinion that is SPECIFICALLY stating that it is one or the other WILL have links or references to scientific or medical journals supporting their opinions on this.

There is absolutely NO definitive answer on this--the medical and scientific communities are all over the place with theories and studies on it.

This is one area of Adult Sexuality where I am going to demand that you support your statement with FACT.