Newly married... I don't Love my husband.. need help?
I feel I have come to a point of desperation in my relationship. My husband and I have been married for all of 18mnths however I feel I've fallen out of love with him.
We have had a rocky first year with quite a lot of family strife and troubles and in our first Christmas as man & wife I found out he had been in trouble with the Law. This was only 3mnths since we were married! He got into some trouble and was charged with Theft but at the time he had chosen to keep it from me. I felt completely let down and ashamed of him, not only had he broken our trust but his actions of dishonesty shocked and appalled me. This was totally out of character from the man I believed I had married.
I have spent the past 12mnths trying to forgive him for his actions however I don’t feel I can trust him. We have now spent so much time arguing and things just keep getting worse. The fights are more volatile and he has a really bad temper to the point, at times I am scared.
I have not told any of my family of my husband’s actions as I’m so ashamed. My Mother has never really liked him as she feels he is'nt good enough for me. My sister also dislikes him and they have argued in the past. My Father says he likes him now, however they have had volatile disagreements in the past and have a tense relationship. I really think I have tried to put this in the past but I have lost all respect fro my husband. I don't like him and certainly don't love him anymore
Some of my friends feel I am being too hard on my husband and feel I should give him the chance to change. However I just feel I have completely fallen out of Love with him and think I should cut my losses with him.
I would really appreciate some impartial advice?
Many Thanks.xx