Okay so recently I have had 2 guys mess me around, they say they like me and then like just don't speak to me. I don't think I'm an ugly girl, I mean I'm probably averagish when it comes to looks and they know I'm not easy, I've been in one relationship which latest nearly 2 years and I still haven't had sex yet... is this just them being pathetic pig headed guys or is it something that I'm doing? I now really like this guy who's a year younger than me, he seems so genuine and he's lovely but I'm so worried about him treating me the same way as the others have.

Please help me..

First, how old are you? Second, what do you mean by "mess me around"?

I am 17, and by messed around I mean they told me they liked me, kissed me and then didn't take any notice of me, this happened on 2 separate occasions and they're not even friends :confused:

The guys are probably just playing games and trying to make a fool out of you
Don't let them.
On the other hand it could be a coincidence and the guys do like you but then someone said they're ocming on too strong so they backed off
You will know better than I do which one it is

They probably just finished watching Mean Girls or Cruel Intentions and thought they would try it on a bit... it was mean so take notice of that and act accordingly.

I had this happen to my sister, and it's sad it happened to you as well. I would tell you that you should just forget about them and continue on with your life. It might be hard, but at least when you look like you are not suffering from them, a.k.a. acting as if you don't care, you can attract other guys. And in case one does like you, they will approach you and then you can find out their true intentions.

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Originally Posted by Gillybeans

I am 17, and by messed around i mean they told me they liked me, kissed me and then didn't take any notice of me, this happened on 2 separate occasions and they're not even friends :confused:

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I agree with every answer so far. Just also understand that just because a guy acts like he likes you, please do not let him take advantage of you by letting him kiss you or anything else if you do not want it.

You can get a bad reputation this way. You should make sure he really likes you first. Be friends, get to know each other. Don't let him kiss you on the first date.

You should never kiss a guy unless he is a friend first, then a boyfriend. Never let anyone mess around with you unless you want them to.

thank you for all the advice guys! =)