How do you cope with the fact that your boyfriend is much older ?
HI, I am a 20 year old girl and I am in a relationship of 3 years with a guy who is 20 years older than me. In the first year of our relationship I was really attracted to him, but now because of the stress that he is facing at work, he started losing hair, he has more grey hair than before, he has more wrinkles etc. Even when we make love I don`t feel in the mood and I wish I slept or anything else but sex and it is sad because I love him for what he is inside,we have the same tastes, the same way of thinking, but I can`t get over his physical appearance. He is also my first man, the only one I had sex with but during the last year I caught myself thinking that he is unattractive and that I don`t want to have sex with him no more. I do make love with him just for his sake, but I find sex boring now and sometimes I don`t want to kiss him, or hug him and I often reproach him that he is to sweet with me, that I wish he were more though, just to avoid cuddling with him. I don`t know what is wrong with me, I enjoy his company, travelling with him, talking to him, but I don`t want to kiss, maybe I reached a point where I am sick of cuddling and making out and I just want a partner, I don`t know... If anyone has been through a similar situation, can you give me any advice please ?