Hi can someone answer please this to me: when someone behaves shamelessly towards me and hurts me.She/he understands what they've done but she/he feels fine about her behavior and no regrets no guilt.
I am hurt and sad and depressed for long time. And then when this person chats me up I am more than happy to chat with her too as if this person was an angel. I forgive him/ her all the hurt and happy to be 'accepted' again.. :confused:
I understand it is dreadful to come back to the same person for friendly conversations but I behave likje that and just wandering what is all about:rolleyes:

Thank you

If you accept their behavior, then don't complain about it, as most people who are treated badly, with no apology, or remorse, leave those kinds of people alone.

You seem to realize that you shouldn't accept their behavior, so why not do something to change it?

Speak up when people disrespect you - you have to be willing to possibly leave your comfort zone to let others around you know what they are doing is wrong. You will gain the respect of others and be a happier person in general. :)

My guess is this is a popular girl you wish you could be friends with but has a tendency to be mean. This type of person feels nothing when they hurt you and won't feel anything until they grow up at bit. Do yourself a favor and distance yourself and even just ignore her completely. Also you are allowing yourself to be treated this way so it will continue. You will never be real friends with this person and I'm sorry but I would never really even try.