Did I do the right thing breaking up with my married boyfriend?
I have been dating this married man for 5 years. He helped me get out of an abusive relationship and we have dated ever since. He has no children and has been married for 27 years. He is 15 years older than me. I have two girls and they don't know about this part of my life. He has been my secret for all this time. He always told me that he will be part of my life until I found someone else becaused he felt that he could not leave his wife since they been together sinces they were teens she was like "family". They are actually like roommates. Anyway, I have tried so hard to break this off for years, but this man is not only my lover he is my best friend and it has been so hard. God finally put a good man in my life so I broke up with my married boyfriend so that I can start dating this other man... The problem is that I can't get my married ex-boyfriend out of my mind, It's affecting my life and my new relationship. It's like I compare my new man to my ex-boyfriend in everything is driving me crazy. My married ex-boyfriend told me that he is now willing to divorce his wife that he realized how much he loves me and wants me to stop seeing this other guy, but I feel thaqt if I do that it will just go back to the same situation all over again and he won't leave his wife. Should I stay with my currecnt boyfriend and forget about the married man. Even though I am in love with my ex-boyfriend?