I am dating a married man and I don't want a commitment from him I enjoy his company he enjoys mine. I don't want him to leavehis wife and he know thaknow that. I was recently asked out by this man and I am going to go on a date with him. Do I tell my married boyfriend. I don't know what his reaction will be, I know that eventually I will need to end it but I am not ready yet... What should I do? <sigh>

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Originally Posted by My_brown_eyed_girls

I am dating a married man and I dont want a commitment from him I enjoy his company he enjoys mine. I dont want him to leavehis wife and he know thaknow that. I was recently asked out by this man and I am going to go on a date with him. Do I tell my married boyfriend. i dont know what his reaction will be, i know that eventually i will need to end it but I am not ready yet....What should I do? <sigh>

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Why not ask your boyfriends wife if she thinks you should go on a date with someone else?

You do realize that by dating a married man you're not only hurting yourself, you're also hurting his entire family. He's married, off limits. You don't have any right to date him.

Go out with the other guy, leave the boyfriend, let him try to make his marriage work. He made a commitment to someone and it's not you.

So your both cheating.

Him on his wife and you on him.

Sounds like a happy ever after.

Leave the married man alone,he's off limits!

Why are you worried,he's cheating on his wife,he has no obligation to you,nor you to him.

Except perhaps health reasons.

If you are sexually active and he may not only be with you and his wife,I suggest a std test.

You step up and be the mature one. Tell him like it is: he has a wife and he is cheating.

I agree with the above. You have no right to go on a date with a married man. It's foolish and immature. You need to leave him alone, unless you want to hurt him, yourself, and his family.

It's obvious you really don't care who gets hurt, as long as you have your... fun.. etc...

Your post is all about your situation, without a second thought for others involved.

Why, I wonder are you even bothering to ask for an opinion!!

Lets face it, you'll do what you want any way.

So you're asking us how to continue to cheat with a cheater?

What's wrong with this picture?

Get over yourself even if u are not ready to move on and leave this stupid ,irrational married man, u must leave him beecause the more time u spend with him the more u may want to be around him,and that is not good

Sorry, the idea of a cheater, cheating on another cheater, I find hilarious, and thank you, for the laugh.

ROFLMAO!!

Cheating on a cheater?
Two wrongs make a right?
Not.

LMAO. I'm not really sure anything else needs to be said. Plus the OP has not returned.

I want to know what right HE would have to get upset? He's cheating on his wife. The op says they have no commitment of any kind. He has no right to get upset because his mistress decides to date someone else.

I would go on the date & then tell him how you got on.don't think he can judge you after all you have your own life to live & its not healthy to hanging around for a married man to phone or tex you when it suits him .go girl you have nothing to lose.

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Originally Posted by flower06

I would go on the date & then tell him how you got on.don't think he can judge you after all you have your own life to live & its not healthy to hanging around for a married man to phone or tex you when it suits him .go girl you have nothing to lose.

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I realize you are dating a married man and questioning why. I don't think it's a good idea to recommend that someone else follows a path which so obviously troubles you.

As a woman it's not about go girl. It's about being with a man who is cheating on another woman.

You talk about girl power. There's no girl power when you are participating in hurting another woman and destroying another relationship or family.