Dual status return non resident single and resident married filing
I was on F1-OPT till oct-2009 (exempt) and hence was considered non resident for tax purposes. I moved to H1B and am currently employed under this visa. Since I spent > 183 days in the US I am a resident for tax purposes from oct-dec 2009. I think I should file dual status tax return for this tax year, with NR for jan-sep and Resident from oct-dec. The confusion is because I got married in November and my wife is on H4 with me from December. I read that I cannot file dual status return "filing jointly". I can either file I) to be considered as a resident for the whole year and "file jointly". In this case I get the standard deduction of 11,500. But I am worried about the social security taxes that were deducted, as they were not deducted for the period from jan-sep as I was exempt.
ii) is it possible to file dual status return, where I say I am single and non resident from jan-sep and from oct-dec I am resident and married and file jointly.
I am confused any guidance would be welcome.