I am going to have a baby... and I am about 5-6 weeks along and I am getting sick all the time... I can't ride in the car... my husband told me I was being mean all the time but he is really being mean he is short with me and won't be close to me or nothing... last night he slept on the floor... am I the one who is mean or am I going crazy... I feal the same but him I can't even talk to him without him getting pissy... help me please:confused:

You are just hormonal. That will go away. I promise!!

Next you will probably cry at cute commercials like I did.

This is only temporary and is due to an influx in hormones in your system. It usually only lasts for the first 3 months, then comes back during the last 3 months. It is hard, but you need to listen to your husband and sometimes bite your tongue if you are going to say something mean or off color. Just be assured it is only temporary.

You are not mean, you are not going crazy, you are hormonal. It is normal and natural. But, you do have to pay attention to what you are saying and how you are saying it. This is when the old saying "think before you speak" really comes in handy.

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Originally Posted by bugaboo21

i am going to have a baby....and i am about 5-6 weeks along and i am getting sick all the time....i can't ride in the car.....my husband told me i was being mean all the time but he is really being mean he is short with me and wont be close to me or nothing....last night he slept on the floor....am i the one who is mean or am i going crazy....i feal the same but him i can't even talk to him without him getting pissy......help me please:confused:

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It might be that you're both being a little short with each other. Plus your hormones are going crazy right now. Everything is going to feel more personal to you. Something you may have just blown off a couple months ago is going to effect you differently now. I'm 35 weeks with my third daughter right now, and I'm still like that. Plus he could be nervous too. Is this his first? I know my husband got snippy with me with our first because he was scared. It took a lot of prodding to get him to talk about it, but eventually he did. And we were both a lot better off letting the other one know how he was making me feel and how he was feeling too.

One more thing if you have sex in the first 3 months will you miscarrie?

No, NO and NO!!

Sex is natural, have fun!!

That is just an old wives tale and a common misconception. Sex actually releases certain endorphins that can be healthy to a pregnant woman.

You might be a little mean right now... you probably deserve some leeway. He might be mean too, and a little scared... he gets some leeway too.

Sex is absolutely fine. Actually, sex is damn great... but you know that.

The craziness will end soon enough. The first trimester can be nuts. My wife was much better the second... er... I mean I wasn't as much an a$$hole... or both. Hang in there.