I have a pretty average penis size a little over 6" in lenght and 6" girth I am happy with it but recently found out that my house mates is a huge 8"! from a female perspective does that size actually make the difference for having better sex i realize its all about the motion but surely somone with 8" who can use it is better than someone with 6"?

Many men fail to realize that bigger penises can be painful to women.

Just as penis's come in different sizes so do vaginas.

Size does not equate skill or experience.

Size has nothing at all to do with pleasure, pleasure comes from knowing how to please the women, and the mere size does not do that.

This sounds more like pre teen envy before a man matures and learns what and how to please a women

It's not what you've got but what you do with it.

Well am glad to know I haven't got anything to worry about :)

Yup think that it's all about how you use it. Remember that most women do not orgasm from penetrative sex. A particularly large penis is painful.

Also sex for women is very much emotionally based, good sex means a connection between the two people on both a physical and emotional level, in my mind.

It has been suggested here that men with larger penises tend to ride on that glory while men with smaller penises will be more attentive and more in tune because they feel the need to compensate for their member.

Penitrative depth doesn't really matter, unless the woman likes her cervix smashed and not many do, because most of the sensation is in the first two or so inches of the vagina. From what I heard, girth is more important then length.

Your milage may vary.

(I am above average, what can I say.)

I am going to choose to differ - I think that size can matter - but as other posters have said it depends on the people involved.

My husband is larger than my Ex, and I can tell you that it feels different and more pleasurable. My Ex wasn't small, and my husband isn't huge, but the difference in their sizes (length and width) has made a difference to the sensation I feel.

I think bigger can be better. But, that's just my experience.

I would agree that I have heard women speak of bigger being different and even better but I have been told that I have a lot of girth and my fiancé seems to orgasm to it just fine. Not often cause I'm not a genious but she does seem to enjoy intercourse with me just fine. Anyway you look at it I'm pretty sure you'll be all right especially with 6 inches. Its when you don't even have 3 inches that you need to use something to help you out or rather to help her out. There are plenty of size builders that just don't work, however there are also extenders that pleasure you and her at the same time and is supposed to do the trick for both. I don't know but if you're really worried about size then you could look it up

It's not the size of the ship... but the motion of the ocean.

And it applies equally male or female.