I just found out he is gay and used me to get the green card and has taken money and all my resources what should I do I love him so much and did not know he was a pathological liar all this time taking my money and my life

If he has 'taken money and all my resources' and lied to get a green card, then you have to report him to immigration. You can't love a man that much to let him off the hook. Don't you want to try and get back something of what he has taken ?

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And you sue him for your money back