We have been dating for almost a year and we want to get sexual only problem is that he can get hard by anything almost expect when he's ready to have actual intercourse or goes to put on a condom he get soft and it he some how can't get hard again. He says it happened before in other relationships. I don't think he has the ED because he can get hard with a handjobs or oral or whatever but the minute he was to go furthure than that he goes soft. Its like his P***s has a mind of its own. Please help me help him. I know it really bothers him that he can't stay hard even though I tell him its OK.

Can anyone help me? Jeez 11 people looked at this and can't give any advice wow!