I loved my Daughters boyfriend as a Son, Now he won't talk to me
I know that this is not normal but my daughters boyfriend just melted my heart and I feel for him. As a son, they dated for a year and a half in that time he was part of our family. Family vacations if he needed anything I got it for him. I would sit and talk to him and give him life advise everything you would with your own child.
They have now broken up and I wanted to talk to him to find out what kind of relationship we could still be like friends or what ever. He will not talk to me tells me its too weird. Says that his feelings were not the same as mine. I feel like he really played me and took advantage of me, but still want to be friends even though I think he played me.
It hurts just as if you have lost a child and I am having a hard time letting him go. Not sure what to do.
Is it really that weird for me to want to talk to him and still have some sort of relationship with him. How do I get over the lost?